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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 28.06.2025 00:45

How does one succeed in life?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Do not set goals—set systems.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Do married men know when their wives are having affairs?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Making more friends is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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That's it for today.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What I need from you?

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Ask yourself:

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Does not procrastinate.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.